My oldest is very bold. He has a way of saying pretty much what is on his mind. Some examples:
"Mom, when we were little did your singing sound that bad?"
OR
"Mom, did boys like you in high school even though you looked like a boy?"
He holds nothing back...especially with me. He is a little more reserved with his dad and I am glad that I have that kind of relationship with my son, however...he asked me something the other day that stung a little more than the previous two comments...
"Mom, do you like to laugh? I don't know what your laugh sounds like." That hit me hard. I don't want my kids not knowing what my laugh sounds like. As a child/teenager, I like to think of myself as mostly happy. Quiet but happy. If someone in our family was in a bad mood, I would act goofy or silly to try and make them happy. My goal this summer - for my son to know my laugh even when I am no where near. It won't be long before he is off at college, alone, away from his family for that long of a time for the first time. He will need to know what his mama's laugh sounds like!
WOW! Wounds of a friend (or son) are faithful:) Laugh your head off!
ReplyDeleteit's tough being the mom - if only they knew how much they make us laugh - man, they know how to pack a punch!
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